"I don't need more theory - I want to act."

We pride ourselves to be very pragmatic and result oriented. Every single course should trigger change and awareness so you can get unstuck from your current situation.

Things you'll learn:

We aren't in the business of selling relationship advice or improving your pick-up lines. Instead, we want to help you find clarity on what you really want. This is the only way to stop falling for the same kind of person over and over again, and start looking for partners that can grow with you.

  • Defining your own limits and boundaries

  • Asking for what you want

  • Discovering your own love language and relationship architecture

  • Being realistic about real-life constraints - even if they aren't very romantic

  • Practical advice on how to communicate, for yourself and others.

On the fence? Here's our promise to you:

  • Take real action - at your pace

    Wherever your starting point, we'll help you move into the right direction at your pace, and with one clear goal: figuring out your best self so you can create the relationships you want to have.

  • No need to reinvent the wheel

    You aren't the first or the only person to struggle with the expectations of fairy tales and romantic movies. That's why we'll share lots of real-life examples you can learn from.

  • Don't stress about the numbers

    It doesn't matter whether you have (or want) no partner, one partner or several partners. The one common ingredient to any of these situations is you: so let's work on that.

Create honest relationships

Understanding yourself is the first step to clearly communicating what you aspire to.

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OMG! The Manual is a life saver!

by Ana

Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! This is the first time I actually shared my manual with a new partner, and it’s SO MUCH BETTER! We were able to skip all the small talk bullshit and cut right through to the important stuff. And it turns out we are super compatible!!!!!!!

We are dating again <3

Louise

We've been married for 15 years, and with two adolescent kids at home, we had turned into flatmates. Sharing our respective user manuals with each other helped us to find practical steps to move back to a partnership of love and respect - instead of just talking logistics all day.