This course is the right choice, if...

Dating the wrong people and realizing it too late, just to be starting from scratch all over again. Feeling tired just thinking about the whole dating procedure. Worried you might never find the perfect match(es). Stressed about all the time it takes to get to know people.

  • If you want to shorten the time it takes to figure out whether someone is a good fit...

  • If you are looking for an option to protect your me-time while still getting to know someone...

  • If you feel it's time to figure out what exactly you are looking for in a partner (or several)...

Course curriculum

  • 1

    Introduction

  • 2

    Current Status Quo: All About You

    • Introduction/Preamble. Whom are you writing this manual for?

    • Priorities and Responsibilities

    • Priorities and Responsibilities - Examples

    • Communication

    • Communication - Examples

    • Long Term Goals

    • Long Term Goals - Examples
  • 3

    Relationship Preferences: All About Us

    • Labels

    • Labels - Examples

    • Sexual Health

    • Sexual Health - Examples

    • Preferences around Sex

    • Preferences around Sex - Examples

    • Unique Quirks that Will Impact Your Relationship

    • Unique Quirks - Examples

    • Deal Breakers

    • Deal Breakers - Examples

    • Epilogue for your Manual
  • 4

    Next Steps: How to use the Manual

    • Tips on Sharing and Maintenance

Create your own user manual and learn how to use your self-knowledge to communicate what you want, when you want it and how you want it.

Your life - your rules.

Your Instructor: Valentina T.

Resident Relationship Anarchist

With almost a decade of experience with different types of ethical non-monogamy, Valentina is well equipped to help you navigate the variety of options available to those who want something different, yet healthy.

Her goal: Helping you to create the healthy and long-lasting (not only non-monogamous) relationships that you are longing for - even if you are an introvert who'd rather stay home than engaging with a network of interconnected personalities.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • When does the course start and finish?

    The course starts as soon as you are ready. By default, it will expire after 90 days - so that you have a reason to actually start working on your sections. If you'd like to enjoy the content for longer than that, get in touch, we'll be happy to extend your access.

  • Can I get feedback on my manual before sharing it?

    You certainly can. Once you finish the course, we'll share a dedicated email for you to send your user manual. You'll get personal feedback from Valentina or one of her colleagues, often included help with phrasing or additional reading material that might be helpful for your specifically.